Raising a child with ADD and ADHD can be a challenge. If I ever need a reminder, I can always ask my parents. Many parents struggle with setting with appropriate interventions and supports for their children. What’s fair and what mat be too much support? Here’s three suggestions.
Strong Limits: People with ADD and ADHD will test limits. If there’s any ambiguity, he or she will push the limits. Drawing a line and not crossing it is a key. If you punish your child, make sure you don’t reduce the punishment. Show that you mean business. But keep in mind that a punishment needs to be appropriate. Don’t threaten to take something away forever unless you mean it. These small cracks in the armor will cause bigger concerns down the road. Make things fair but firm.
Accountability: Never let someone with ADD and ADHD use this disorder as an excuse. It isn’t fair. While there’s certainly moments where it’s fair, it’s important to separate ADD and ADHD as a scapegoat.
Education: Learn as much as you can about ADD and ADHD and pass that knowledge onto your family. This helps everyone better understand it and work towards identifying success strategies.
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